Fascination man and woman – The big secret | Leo & Susanna Bigger | ICF Zurich

2025/04/27 | Leo & Susanna Bigger

In this sermon Leo & Susanna Bigger explore the fascination between man and woman and the “big secret” for lasting relationships: attraction is a gift, but character and Christ-centered identity are the foundation (Song of Songs; Gen. 2:18). Main idea: falling in love is God-given, but true attachment grows through character, intentional affection, and spiritual grounding (Song of Songs 1:9–11; 2:7). Practical takeaway: practice daily habits—kiss and compliment often, give 8–12 hugs, pray for your spouse, and invest in emotional “checks” that build attachment. Become the person you’re looking for rather than chasing a perfect list. Gentle call to reflection/action: ask God to reveal your identity in Christ, then take one concrete step this week—hug, speak grace, or pray—for healthier marriage and relationships (Song of Songs imagery applied).