So bleibst du interessant für deinen Partner! | Leo & Susanna Bigger | ICF Zürich

2025/05/11 | Leo & Susanna Bigger

Leo & Susanna Bigger explain how to stay interesting for your partner by practising three complementary loves: agape (selfless service), philia (friendship and gratitude) and eros (passionate intimacy). Main idea: love thrives when you intentionally give, affirm and invest in physical and emotional connection (Song of Songs 8:6; 6:3; Luke 6:35). Practical takeaway: cultivate agape by serving and listening, build philia with regular, specific compliments and the “A–Z gratitude” exercise, and revive eros through consistent, loving sexual presence — not performance. Their concrete tips (practice one compliment a week, write your gratitude ABC, schedule intimate time) make staying attractive achievable. Gentle call to action: choose one small step today—write one grateful line, speak one compliment, or plan a night to reconnect—and watch your relationship deepen.