The formula for the best sex | Leo & Susanna Bigger | ICF Zurich

2025/05/25 | Leo & Susanna Bigger

Leo & Susanna Bigger teach that the best sex is a sacred, relational gift — not merely an urge, a source of shame, or selfish self-expression. Rooted in Song of Songs and Genesis 2:24, they call you to protect the “closed garden” (Song of Songs 4:12), resist pornography, and treat intimacy as covenantal oneness. Practical takeaway: put sexual impulses “back to sleep” when single, set clear boundaries, and—if married—serve your spouse, communicate openly, create atmosphere, schedule date nights, and use simple feedback questions to grow together. Gentle call to reflection/action: ask the Holy Spirit what one boundary or ritual you need to start this week; read Song of Songs and take one concrete step to protect and deepen your intimacy (John 8:11 reminds you — grace, then change).